Thanks for the replies so far but I still don't know the proper options to send RJ the money. Paypal did not ask to verify the CC and has accepted it for use (with a restriction on the amount per month) so that is not my problem. My question still is exactly what options are used to make the payment correctly. Please don't make any assumptions that I have any clue as to how anything in paypal works because I DON'T. I have only used paypal once in my life and that was years ago and even then, it was with retail vendor on ebay where it was set up like any other credit card processing form. This is not the case here.
When I log into paypal one of the tabs is to send money. When selected, it then askes for the email of the person being sent the money and the amount to send. This much even I can figure out. The problem is were to go from here. On the bottom of the form there is another sub box that indicates the payment type. The two types are Purchase and Personal. If I leave it as the default everything looks good but since I'm paying by CC, the FAQ makes it appear that the CC processing fee will be deducted from the payment made to RJ. If I select the personal box and select payment owed, everything looks good there but now the shipping address is not included in the payment and I'm not sure if the card will charge me a cash advance fee.
I guess that what I need to know is what options are others that pay by CC with paypal are using to make sure that the coop manager is getting what they are owed.