on item 2) I meant to say solder on the wireless jumper.
The termination resistor colors called out brown, red, brown, black
the resistor are brown, red, black, black, brown
It sound like you have a DC volt meter. Just for fun can you check the 5V.
This is the power for your rs485.
Don't mean to hover here but this is for your DMX data.
The green 5V led is on but for me I'd check it with a meter.
ground side of your meter to bottom (4 hole) left side of your wireless module thought hole.
plus side of your meter to the right side third down of your wireless module thought hole.
4.7 K ohm resistor at the top of the pic Yellow, Violet, Red, Gold
47 ohm resistor, if installed at the same place will cause a programming issue Yellow, Violet, black, Gold.
Last thing for now are you programing through the ICSP header or do you have an adapter board? Some adapter boards need jumpers installed.
Go to go to work I'll check in tonight 11 pm.