Thanks rmp2917, that looks like what I need.
I did find the answer somewhere last year, but after having my hard drive replaced just before christmas, I couldn't find it again.
I really wish I could get a ZIF board, but can't seem to get them here in New Zealand, can't get much of anything down here
and paying $40+ shipping from the US is not feasible for something I'll only use a couple of times, can't even ad one to a mouser order, since they don't sell them, so my options are limited.