Stop trying to catch up to others and work with what you have.
Read the assembly manual twice and understand it before going gung ho in the assembly
(not saying I did not do this of course)
Always take advise from other members as they are not trying to hurt your feelings, they are trying to help you (without knowing what your skill sets are).
And finally, which I believe is the most important rule of all: Be grateful every day for finding this community and always be an active member within it.
Steve