Hi Guys,
Some of my thoughts:
1. Always keep the wife (spouse) happy. As others have said let the family help come up with new display elements and songs as well as involving them in the hobby so it is fun for all.
2. Creativity is your best friend and worst enemy.
3. Sequencing.......
3. Before adding strings of lights (legacy) to any display item label the plugs on both ends with a sharpie or paint them the corresponding color.
4. With the creativity try to be ingenious and come up with ways to mount and store elements to make setup and tear down easier. Don't be afraid to use something in a manner different than its original purpose. This is especially important in my circumstance (go Navy) where I might not be home for the holidays. This gives the wife the ability to set up either a simple static display or run last years show (ties into #7 also).
5. Share your ideas so other can use and/or modify them for their needs as this is what the community is about.
6. Get a dedicated show PC and try to organize a file structure that allows you to easily find things on the computer related to your display, software, sequences, hardware, etc.
7. Take pictures and make plans of your display as this will make setup easier for next year (so you remember how you did something).
8. Don't go broke supporting the hobby, see #1. As addictive as this is, don't spend $4000 dollars on lights if you can only spend $400 dollars. Be realistic with the amount of money that you can spend (not charge) so you don't break the bank. The people that have awesome displays have typically been doing this for a long time or have a better paying job than you or me.
9. Have other hobbies that you can turn to when you are burned out or need to focus on other things, mine include sport shooting with the family, woodworking, playing paintball with the wife and kids, spending time with the wife (date night), spending time with the kids (movie/game night) and spending time with friends and family (barbecues).
Lastly and in an effort to quit rambling see my last lesson learned.
10. Always keep the wife happy, see rule #1 and always repeat.
-Rich