[SOLVED]
Finally, figured this out.
So next thing I do is try the test software.
That produces a kinda odd result, in that green and blue would seem to flash, like the test pattern, but very low brightness.
Red was not seen at all.
So I start into it, and first thing I do is solder in a secondary 12V hookup directly to the board, so I know thats not an issue.
Then I start probing (with a mega old oscilloscope I inherited and had never used.) to look at the voltage regulators.
They looked good, but I thought I saw something on the 3.3 Volt a couple times, but I think that was just my hand slipping.
At some point during this I noticed, that they stopped flashing the test pattern. (Only 1 slip with the probe that cause a spark, but I didn't think I actually hurt anything)
So i swap out the chip with another with test code, same result, and the original chip still worked.
So at this point the 3.3 V still looked suspicious, so I ripped it off, and wired a direct 3.3 volts.
Nothing....
Now that I am hooked up to a regulated supply, I can see the current draw from the micro.
I note that it goes in a disinct 4 beat patter, with the fourth pulse being a 20% ish higher than the others.
This causes me to really wonder about the MOSFETS.
So, I did more probing, but didn't really seem to see anything.
1 of them seem to have a slightly odder input voltage transition, like high then brief dip low then back to high. Instead of just a half second high.
So at this point, I just say the heck with it and cut off the MOSFETS one at a time....
Nothin... (Off course nothing would work, but at no point did any color work)..
So at this point, I just start applying voltage to the point at where the wires leave the board and go to the strand.
For the life of me I cannot get the lights to light.
So i cut off the 4 wire white socket so I can easily probe it.
AND WOULDN'T YA KNOW
The manufactured white socket had the 4 wires messed up.
As you look at the keyed end with the nob up, the wires were mirrored horizontally.Now how in the world does having them mis-wired like that cause blue and green to just barely flash.
Only thing I can figure is the caps on the small boards in each led bulb were somehow storing just enough current to flash the LEDs a bit?
If you have a circuit diagram that could explain to me how this mis-wire results in a slight flash of the green/blue LEDs I would love to see the explanation.
Long night of being Obsessive Compulsive
Included for fun is a pic of my workbench when all was said and done, and I stepped back and said, what am i doing.
I know I know, the bench is a mess. I let it go way downhill 1.5 years ago when we were trying to move, and I just haven't had the time since to get it back the way I want it.