Final update: I found that I could control my matrix better with my second etherdongle. Conclusion is that my third etherdongle has issues and really can't control anything very well for some reason. So for the heck of it I tried controling the first 8 strings of the matrix with a pixelnet flashed (DMX) dongle. And wow, it worked great and no lag. I mean it was working ok with the second etherdongle, but it was still exhibiting some sluggishness I can't explain. Probably acceptable but a little laggy even just using control straight from PC to etherdongle#2 and then to the Zeus2 and matrix strings. But when I tried the same test sequence using the pixelnet flashed dongle ... it was the best by far. So I decided I would use 10 of the 12 strings and run the first 85 nodes on the 11th string ... since thats how many I could fit on one pixelnet flashed dongle with 4k PN channels. It's working great.
I do wonder if the length of the cords on the matrix panels might be an issue? I mean they are generous, but I think all are 3' or less and maybe if you add that 1-2' from the Zeus 2 side ... I'm still 5-6' max I think. But anyways, it seems that the matrix works best this way, and I just don't understand exactly WHY. It was enough of an improvement that I decided I'd rather have almost 11 panels of smooth, no lag ... vs. 12 panels with some lag from a single ED into a single Zeus2. I may try it again after the season with a regular zues, but it has the same 4096 single universe limitation, so at this point that doesn't get me to using 12 strings either. I may try a falcon unit and I'm guessing that may fix it, who knows.