also, before you sign yourself up for being the "guy that can flash the pic" make sure you can use your programmer a few times, and read and write with it as well aas verify.
also, make sure you can properly setup the zif sockets (if purchasing the j1sys boards)
for example, one of the boards takes two different sized pics, but pin1 for each size isn't in the same place.
if you get the authentic pickit 3, then others can help you, b/c we should have the same item. If you get a pickit "clone" we may not be able to help you as well, since there are many versions that don't exactly work the same. also the "redneck's programmer" does not work for all pic's in all pin packages (number of pins on the chip)