Nobody ever said not to get as much help as possible from the community here and in time, be one of the ones offering it to others but that has little to do with whether you have your own programmer or not. If you only have a few piecs that need programming it's not all that bad but you will find that as we get closer to the season, people will have less and less time to do things like programming chips for someone else when they have their own displays and family obligations to deal with. Needing help with a board that doesn't work or with sequencing software is one thing but tying up someone elses time to flash a chip becase you are don't feel the need to buy a programmer IMHO is just rude.