Sorry, I fell asleep as soon as I got home.
Okay, I made the batch file, and the newest version of Arduino is installed.
What next? Here is what I understand (I know it is wrong, but these are the "type" of instructions I need)
With the computer on:
Start Arduino
Plug in USBAsp to computer
Plug USBAsp into PDMXP
Drag the Panther hex onto Batch file
Then the chip gets programed
This does not work... I know