It's all working broke one of my own rules, if it isn't broke don't fix it. The Dc to DC converter (provides 5VDC isolation from the RS485 chips I believe) was crooked on installed tryed to straighten it up and broke something inside, very fragile. The rest was software. Got output to the Etherdonge through Xlights but could only get 1 pixnet universe so moved on to vixen in Wiki found the Etherdongle pixnet download 2.1 Vixen and installed it in the output plugin file of vixen. Could not ever get an output to Etherdongle with Vixen. All over the Etherdongle forums Roy got me started with Multicast and Rick had a quick blip on the IP address for the Etherdongle, big thanks to both. Hls is going to my choice with no reason except I can navigate it fairly easy. I can get all four Pixnet universes out it and set up from HLs output drop down box NIC card, Ricks IP (seams like HLS Joe's program will ping the card and return the IP address but that's a big guess on my part) from there set up my universes.
Now I can be all wrong here but the way Joe (HLS) does it is,
Pixnet universe 1 DMX universe 1 through 8
Pixnet Universe 2 DMX universe 9 through 16 when changing Pixnet universes DMX universe starts back at DMX universe 1 to 512 channels not from 4097 to 4608 channels
Pixnet universe 3 DMX universe 17 through 24
Pixnet universe 4 DMX universe 25 thorough 32
Hope this helps someone else and Thanks RJ, Rick and all who make this happen.